Comments on: Does respect come with a job? http://kerimsatirli.com/personal-stuff/does-respect-come-with-a-job/ Kerim Satirli's personal site Wed, 03 Dec 2008 08:17:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7-RC1 hourly 1 By: Ben http://kerimsatirli.com/personal-stuff/does-respect-come-with-a-job/comment-page-1/#comment-424 Ben Fri, 23 Feb 2007 08:40:40 +0000 http://kerimsatirli.com/?p=66#comment-424 I definitely agree with what Katie said about Power-type roles, of *BOTH* sexes. Men and women both do the same things, of getting what they want by using the power they wield/at they're disposal. Its morally objectionable to use your power to actually derive information from a person for personal pleasure/knowledge, while under the position of Authority. It's exactly the same as, how it is bad Ju-Ju, as you "The Customer", to ask a girl/guy employee at a retail shop/coffee shop/general workplace, to go out with you or for personal information.Your the customer, they're the employee serving you, making sure your happy with they're service so that you come back and spend more money there. Instead, get to know them on a subtle level, if your interested in them. Never put someone else in a situation that you personally find uncomfortable with, or think that person would be uncomfortable with. You'll never know this though, until you get to know them, and its hard to do without seeming to come across as using the power-trip card. In other words, I think it falls under the category of "Do to others as you want done to you". It just falls back to being a human, and using what's available you, which I am sure would fall under a very detailed Psychology book/chapter/sub-section somewhere. I definitely agree with what Katie said about Power-type roles, of *BOTH* sexes. Men and women both do the same things, of getting what they want by using the power they wield/at they’re disposal.

Its morally objectionable to use your power to actually derive information from a person for personal pleasure/knowledge, while under the position of Authority. It’s exactly the same as, how it is bad Ju-Ju, as you “The Customer”, to ask a girl/guy employee at a retail shop/coffee shop/general workplace, to go out with you or for personal information.Your the customer, they’re the employee serving you, making sure your happy with they’re service so that you come back and spend more money there. Instead, get to know them on a subtle level, if your interested in them. Never put someone else in a situation that you personally find uncomfortable with, or think that person would be uncomfortable with. You’ll never know this though, until you get to know them, and its hard to do without seeming to come across as using the power-trip card.

In other words, I think it falls under the category of “Do to others as you want done to you”. It just falls back to being a human, and using what’s available you, which I am sure would fall under a very detailed Psychology book/chapter/sub-section somewhere.

]]> By: Katie http://kerimsatirli.com/personal-stuff/does-respect-come-with-a-job/comment-page-1/#comment-423 Katie Wed, 21 Feb 2007 03:42:00 +0000 http://kerimsatirli.com/?p=66#comment-423 I think if I happened to find myself in this situation I'd agree to give my contact info. The reason I'd give him my number would be purely based on social evaluation of the situation. Say if he used to be a computer programmer and was rather awkward about the asking. If he was too suave about the asking I'd be less likely to give it out considering it's probably typical of the guy which would be compromising with him being in a power type role. Oh - And for me personally - it wouldn't matter so much which profession the individual was doing at the time. Which venue would I use? Definitely e-mail. I think if I happened to find myself in this situation I’d agree to give my contact info. The reason I’d give him my number would be purely based on social evaluation of the situation. Say if he used to be a computer programmer and was rather awkward about the asking. If he was too suave about the asking I’d be less likely to give it out considering it’s probably typical of the guy which would be compromising with him being in a power type role.

Oh - And for me personally - it wouldn’t matter so much which profession the individual was doing at the time.

Which venue would I use? Definitely e-mail.

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